I want to live an abundant life. I want to live to an old age knowing that my years were full of rich experiences and that I spent them doing something that matters. I’m guessing you do too.
The question is, in order to achieve that plan, how important is money?
Basic economic textbooks will tell you that people are utility-maximizing creatures. I’d say for the most part this is true. We make decisions that will try to maximize our happiness (or whatever else we desire).
Most economics textbooks then move on to claim that money is the main method for doing this (well obviously for most of them). We buy things we want. We trade our time for money by working. We then use that money to buy more things that we want. And the cycle goes on and on.
My problem with this perspective is that there are many types of experiences money simply can’t buy. To me, it seems like there are many different currencies we pay to enjoy a richer life and money just happens to be one of them.
Money is good for a lot of things. Clothes, rent, food, entertainment and almost anything necessary for survival can be bought. If you’re not able to pay for your basic necessities, then money is blood and too little of it might kill you.
However I’d bet that’s not the situation for most of the people reading this website. The question isn’t whether money is important in the absolute (of course it is), but whether having more money is important.
Even more particularly, the question is whether having more money is more important than having more of some other currencies in life like positivity, social skills, confidence, having good friends etc and whether you should invest a lot of time maximizing money at the expense of the other.
A simple example of this dilemma would be going to a party with friends. Here, money can mean the difference between staying at someone’s house and going to a luxurious party. There’s probably some difference in quality there, but it’s not huge. In either case you’re going to enjoy time with friends, simply the setting has changed.
Now consider a different life currency, like social skills or investments made in building deeper relationships. If you’re poor on this facet, then you probably won’t enjoy the party a lot. You don’t know the people well and you don’t have the confidence or skill to make friends easily.
Consider the same party, same setting, but that you have better social skills or better relationships with the people you’re spending time with. Now the party is fun. Either you’re comfortably meeting new people, or you’re enjoying the company of good friends.
In my party example money isn’t that important. At most, it can shift the setting of the party. It can’t make you a great conversationalist. It can’t make you best friends with the other partygoers.
If you had to ask me in this situation which I’d rather have–a full wallet or great social skills and great friends–it wouldn’t be hard to answer.
A quick Google search of “how to make money” reveals 284 million entries. As a currency of life, people clearly want to know how to make more of it.
Go to any personal finance website and you can find detailed steps to optimize your investments, raise your income and maximize the amount of money you have and great savings ideas. I sadly see very less of the same approach intended at increasing other currencies in life, such as social skills or your ability to learn new things.
For something like world travel, there are a number of life currencies I’d rate as being more important than money:
- Ability to adapt to the unknown
- Travel know-how
- Fluency in other languages
Yet I’ve rarely seen books and blogs devoted to methodically improving your ability to adapt to unfamiliar environments.
Lack of money is often blamed for many problems in life. Poor guys wish they were richer so that more women would be attracted to them. Poor homebodies wish they were richer so they could travel the world. Poor students wish they had more money to buy a better education.
But in focusing, and often blaming, money for their problems, do these people miss the point?
In my own life, should my priorities be to go from covering my expenses to financial abundance, or as a 32-year old should I be investing in the many other assets that I haven’t had the time on this planet to accumulate? This is an interesting question I’ve only begun to ask myself.
As this blog is about the pursuit of the ideal life, I feel a big part of that is pinpointing exactly what that is for you, and then asking what are the currencies you need to create that life. And, if they aren’t money, how do you go about earning something you can’t count and society often fails to acknowledge?
We should never stop learning and making mistakes and learning from them again and again. Isn’t that what life is all about until we get to the point where we somewhat feel a bit content.